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Laura Viau's avatar

I mean... Ooof.

There’s good reason my mantra for most realms of life has become “the only way out is through.” And my particular ennea-self would prefer to “get while the gettin’s good” 😊 Choosing to stay in it to move through it... that’s some work.

Mixing streams for a moment- it strikes me that (for me) much of moving through requires putting aside my fear of getting stuck. Which might be why this season of Lasso has been resonating so hard it rattles. Lots of unsticking by confronting the thing that needs more than just pushing through.

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Maggie Beamguard's avatar

Another beautiful reflection. Just a few weeks ago I wasn’t sure how I was going to “get through my” some difficult family situations. For about 48 hours, all I could do was focus on my next breath. It wasn’t meditation. It was survival. “Ok you are going to take another breath now. In. Out.” Framing it as “moving through” is so helpful. It transforms my meager breath taking into gracious regard for what I could do. And it turns it into a tool I can call upon again. I have enough lived experience now to be able to call on the wisdom of the elders who shared with your grad - I would remind myself that this feeling was temporary. I would not feel like this for the rest of my life. Thank you for some new language!

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